Friday, November 27, 2009

Finally

Jaxen can finally sit! It took the little guy 8 1/2 months but he got it. I am having a hard time comparing him to Ava and other babies. Ava was already crawling and climbing on things at his age. He only rolls to get from place to place and now sits. I watch other babies when we are out and they seem to be able to do a lot more. He is a big boy weighing in at 23.8 pounds so maybe that has something to do with it. Heavier people have a hard time getting up so maybe it's the same. He doesn't seem to mind though, he really is a happy baby. He smiles all the time and now plays shy. It's so cute, he turns his head into his shoulder and gives a little smile. I used to hold Jaxen during the day when he was napping but that turned out against me. At night I would feed him and try to lay him down but as soon as he hit the crib he was screaming. He was used to somebody holding all the time while sleeping. It was becoming rediculous because he was dead weight in your arms so you knew he was sleeping. I decided it would be best for him to learn to comfort himself and try to cry it out. The first night was so sad, he cried for about 10 minutes and there was no signs of it stopping. The next night Jaxen cried for 10 minutes and was out cold for the rest of the night. I decided no more holding during the day and it's worked out so far. It's probably better for Ava too, having a little more one on one time. It just makes me sad that my babies are growing up so fast. Jaxen is already almost 9 months, which means almost a year which means I go back to work. That's a whole other post though....

3 comments:

  1. Yay Jaxen! He is such a cute baby. I can't believe he is already 9 months.
    Don't worry about him and where he is at developmentally. Both of my kids were way slower sitting up and getting moving than other babies and it really is hard not to compare. But don't worry, once he does get up and moving, he will be hard to keep up to!

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  2. I love this kid! and apparently so does Ty. The other day I could hear him playing and he kept calling McKenna baby Jaxen! So funny.

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  3. ahh he is so freaken cute!!! we need to get together more often. it was so fun seeing you guys at ellie's party:)

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